What to Do After an Autism Identification: A Step-by-Step Guide for Families

Having a child identified with autism can feel like a whirlwind of emotions. You may experience relief in finally having an explanation, uncertainty about what comes next or even a sense of overwhelm. No matter where you are on this journey, know that you are not alone. An autism identification is not a roadmap to limitations—it’s a guide to better understanding your child’s uniqueness. This step-by-step guide will help you navigate the next steps with confidence.

1. Take Time to Process

It’s natural to feel a range of emotions after receiving your child’s autism identification. Take a moment to breathe and acknowledge your feelings. Every child is different, and autism is simply one part of who they are. Connecting with other parents, joining support groups or speaking with a therapist can help you process the diagnosis in a supportive environment.

2. Educate Yourself About Autism

Understanding autism is key to supporting your child. While every autistic child is unique, learning about common traits and support strategies will empower you to make informed decisions.

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For information and funding:

• National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS) (www.ndis.gov.au)

Books, podcasts and webinars from autistic individuals and professionals can also provide invaluable insight into your child’s experience.

3. Build Your Support Team

You don’t have to navigate this journey alone. Surround yourself with professionals who can guide and support your child’s development. Consider connecting with:

• Paediatricians – to monitor overall health and refer to specialists.

• ESDM Therapists – for specialised early intervention support across all developmental domains

• Occupational Therapists (OTs) – for support with sensory processing, fine motor skills, and daily activities.

• Speech Therapists – to help with communication and social skills.

• Psychologists – for emotional regulation, anxiety, and social skills.

• Educators and school support staff – to help create an inclusive learning environment.

4. Apply for Early Intervention and Support Services

Early intervention can make a significant difference in your child’s development and independence. Look into:

• NDIS funding – Provides financial support for therapy, equipment and support services.

• Medicare Rebates – Some therapy sessions may be covered under Chronic Disease Management Plans.

• Community-based support programs – Many non-profit organisations offer therapy and social skills groups.

Speak with professionals about the best therapy options for your child, such as speech therapy, occupational therapy, or play-based interventions.

5. Connect with the Autism Community

Finding a supportive community can be life-changing. Many families benefit from connecting with others who understand their journey. Consider:

• Joining online and in-person support groups.

• Attending autism-friendly events and workshops.

• Connecting with advocacy groups that promote inclusion and awareness.

6. Work with Your Child’s School or Early Learning Centre

If your child is in school or daycare, communicate openly with their educators about their needs. Work together to create an Individualised Learning Plan (ILP) or Education Adjustment Plan (EAP) that outlines strategies for success. These might include:

• Visual schedules and routine supports.

• Sensory-friendly accommodations.

• Social skills training and peer support programs.

Advocating for your child in the education system ensures they have the tools they need to thrive.

7. Implement Strategies at Home

Your home environment plays a huge role in your child’s well-being. Consider:

• Creating predictable routines – Visual schedules and timers help with transitions.

• Using visual supports – Picture communication boards, first-then charts, AACs and social stories can support understanding.

• Providing a sensory-friendly space – Identify sensory triggers and create calming strategies (e.g., weighted blankets, fidget tools, noise-canceling headphones).

• Encouraging strengths and interests – Build confidence through activities that your child enjoys and excels in.

8. Advocate for Your Child

You are your child’s biggest advocate. Learn about their rights in healthcare, education and disability services. Educate family members and friends about autism to foster an inclusive and understanding support network. As your child grows, teach them self-advocacy skills to help them express their needs and preferences.

9. Take Care of Yourself

Caring for a child with additional needs can be rewarding but also challenging. Your well-being is just as important as your child’s. Make sure to:

• Seek respite care or childcare support when needed.

• Connect with other parents who understand your journey.

• Prioritise self-care, whether it’s exercise, hobbies, or relaxation time.

Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking care of yourself helps you be the best support for your child.

10. Embrace the Journey

Autism is not the end of the road—it’s a new path to understanding and supporting your child’s unique strengths. By taking proactive steps, seeking support and embracing your child’s individuality, you can create an environment where they can truly thrive.

Every family’s journey looks different, and that’s okay. Trust yourself, lean on your support network, and celebrate your child’s progress, big or small. You’ve got this!

Need Support? If you have any questions or want personalised guidance, feel free to reach out. Kindred Kids is here to help you and your child navigate this journey with confidence and support.